How to get an orgasm during penetrative s*x

More women are likely to achieve orgasm through oral sex due to the fact that this makes clitoral stimulation more possible. This does not mean you should give up on reaching the big 'O' through penetrative sex.

Here are ways to make achieving orgasm via actual intercourse more likely to happen.

1. Add clitoral stimulation

Like mentioned above, orgasm is much likelier if clitoral stimulation is achieved. Anything that makes it possible for your clit to get some attention increases your chances of having an orgasm. So, during sex, you can touch yourself with your finger, or have him do that. You can also seek the help of a vibrator or other sex toy to tease and massage the area.

2. Get wet

If your body's own lubrication isn't enough, you might experience irritation or a burning sensation from intercourse. This can make orgasm less likely. Adding a little lubricant for some extra slipperiness will make sex so much better and more pleasurable. Pleasure means you have a higher chance of climaxing.

3. Orgasm beforehand

Some women have said they are more likely to orgasm if they cum before the penetrative sex begins. So, have some fun through foreplay, and your body will get relaxed enough for you to have some more fun when he begins thrusting.

4. More foreplay

Spending more time on foreplay can also increase your orgasm chances. The more turned on you are, the more likely you are to get there.

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5. Relax

If you or your partner is feeling any pressure or judgment around whether you have an orgasm during penetration, this will affect your chances. Just as performance anxiety can cause erection difficulties for men, it can also make arousal and orgasm more difficult for women. The more you feel pressured or goal-oriented, the harder it can be to relax into orgasm.